

Review: A Woman Is No Man by Etaf Rum is a powerful and heartbreaking multigenerational story that examines the struggles, silence, and resilience of Palestinian-American women caught between tradition and the desire for freedom. Through the voices of Isra, a young woman forced into an arranged marriage and suffocated by cultural expectations, and Deya, her daughter who begins to question the family’s past, Rum portrays the devastating consequences of patriarchy, honor, and the silencing of women within immigrant households. The prose is simple yet piercing, carrying a quiet intensity that makes the characters’ pain and courage feel deeply real. What makes the novel remarkable is not just its unflinching depiction of domestic abuse and generational trauma, but also its insistence on the possibility of hope, choice, and breaking cycles of oppression. Though emotionally heavy and at times difficult to read, the book opens necessary conversations about identity, cultural conflict, and the cost of silence, leaving readers both shaken and inspired.