I used to think that communication was the real key to relationships, until I realized that understanding is the key.
You can communicate with someone all you want, but if they don\'t understand you, it\'s silent chaos.
So: “Understand and do not let the devil translate.”
An important rule in relationships. How many concepts were not intended, and what was intended was not understood.
Most of our problems with our loved ones, relatives, or even with people occur for two reasons:
1: What was intended was not understood.
2: It is understood and not intended.
3: Mistrust and doubt.
The solution is very easy in two steps:
Inquire about his meaning.
And think best of him.
God mentioned this solution in Surah Al-Hujurat, and He, Glory be to Him, said: So be careful, lest you harm a people out of ignorance and then become regretful for what you have done.
He said: O you who have believed, avoid much suspicion, for some suspicion is sinful.
The meaning and summary of this is: If the expression betrays me, let the interpretation betray you.
There is nothing in the world worth disagreeing about.
Nor do we hate each other for it.
The title of the world: Everyone on it is mortal.
The title of the Hereafter: They will abide therein in good stability and standing.
So do good, even if it is a kind word.